What do you want in a relationship?
safety and security
love and companionshipto feel appreciated, have fun!
At the same time, you want your relationship to have a nice, cushiony place in your life
not BARGE into everything
with plenty of YOU time.
You’ve seen those creepy, crunchy people who only live for THAT one relationship? I (might have been that person…)
If you and your job were in a relationship, 🤝 how would you describe it right NOW?
Are you on the same page? 📖
I teach SLPs how to get on the same page with their work flow
In healthy relationships, of course, you make some compromises
YOU also create and hold clear boundaries about how you want to be treated.
Thing is… nobody teaches us how to actually balance compromises and boundaries.
C’mon that’s weird, nobody talks like that.
nobody thinks like that
BUT SHOULD WE?
I don’t know
but it boils down to…
Having what you want
Uhm, YOU GUYS, that’s kind of important
So, What DO you want? Have you asked yourself lately?
Most people don’t even ask themselves (let alone dare to give an answer) because….
they think it’s
- impossible
- too complicated
- up to the job or the person to cooperate (Uhm, If you’re waiting on cooperation- you’re screwed)
- loads more work (which you definitely can’t handle right now)
It’s never as hard as you think though
No matter what setting you are in right now
face to face, tele-therapy, working on the frontlines, or not working at all
You need to protect your fabulous self (boundaries) AND make it work (compromise)
You’ve tried, writing out some ideas, read some articles, looked on Pinterest
but don’t even have time to stop and think about dreamy relationships and shit like that…
– you’ve got work to do… soooo back to work…
uhg but I’m exhaaaaauuuusted (hey, your dreams matter)
Doing the same things over and over, and hoping for different results. hmmm.
If this is your problem,
I have a much more efficient and predictable method to get you and your work flow on the same page.
It’s never an impossible laundry-list of things though
ONE or TWO vital tweaks are enough to overcome the disconnect
…and NO it doesn’t mean quitting or working harder or doing more meditation,
Not if you are training your brain on purpose to laser your effectiveness in less time by-
*Creating multiple ways to use the same ideas
*Using documentation output optimization
*Thinking in schedules rather than in unending to-do lists
*Getting more done but working less
So you can go, and be totally f’ing fabulous
As always, hugs and love,
Let’s add a deep bow this week,
Angie
P.S. If you and your job were in a relationship how would you describe it right NOW?
P.S.S. I teach all of this and way more in my 6 months to Stop Dreading Mondays 1:1 SLP life-coaching program. It makes getting out of burnout simple and we actually have fun too. Pssst, and it’s not aaaalllll about SLP either. Schedule a free 60 minute consultation to see what tweaks will work for you.
